Commission is the line item people ask about last and worry about most. It's also the one that changed most in the last two years. Here is what the rules actually say now, what stayed the same, and what to ask before you sign anything.
I'm not going to quote you a rate in this article. Rates are negotiable, no law sets them, and anyone who tells you there is a standard number is either misinformed or selling you something. What I can do is explain the structure clearly enough that you can read an agreement and know what you're looking at.
What a real estate commission actually is
A commission is the fee a brokerage charges for the work of selling or buying a home. It's usually expressed as a percentage of the sale price, though flat fees and hourly arrangements exist. It is paid at closing, out of the transaction, and it is itemized on the settlement statement.
It is not a tax. It is not a government fee. It is not set by the MLS, by the National Association of REALTORS, or by any state agency. It is a negotiated business term between you and a brokerage.
What changed in August 2024
Two practice changes took effect on August 17, 2024, following the National Association of REALTORS settlement. Both are still in force, and the Eighth Circuit affirmed the settlement in August 2026, so they are not going anywhere.
Offers of compensation came off the MLS. Listing brokers can no longer publish, on the MLS, what they will pay a buyer's broker. That information used to sit in a field every agent could see. Now it is negotiated off the MLS and written into the agreements and the contract.
Buyers sign before they tour. If you are working with an agent who participates in an MLS, that agent needs a signed written agreement with you before touring a home with you, in person or by live virtual tour. The agreement has to state what the agent will be paid, or exactly how that amount will be calculated. It cannot be open-ended. It also has to say, conspicuously, that broker fees are not set by law and are fully negotiable.
You do not need an agreement to walk through an open house or to ask an agent about their services. That distinction gets lost in a lot of the coverage.
New Jersey added its own requirement. The state's Real Estate Consumer Protection Enhancement Act took effect August 1, 2024, and requires a written brokerage services agreement between the firm and a residential buyer before services begin, or as soon as reasonably practical after. In practice, in New Jersey you should expect to sign before you tour, not after.
Who pays the commission now
The honest answer is that the seller still pays it in most South Jersey transactions, out of the proceeds at closing, and the buyer still feels it in the purchase price. What changed is that this is no longer automatic or assumed. It is negotiated.
Compensation for a buyer's agent can now come from three places, alone or combined: the buyer directly, a seller concession written into the contract, or a share of what the listing broker is paid. A broker cannot collect more than the amount stated in the buyer's written agreement, from any source. That cap is one of the required terms, and it protects you.
For sellers, this means you decide what, if anything, you're willing to contribute toward the buyer's side, and you can use it as a negotiating tool. Offering it can widen your buyer pool, particularly for buyers whose cash is tight after a down payment. Declining it can narrow that pool. Neither choice is wrong. Both should be deliberate.
How the math works
Take a $450,000 sale and a hypothetical total commission of 5%. That's $22,500, deducted at closing. If the two sides were split evenly, each brokerage would receive $11,250 before its own internal split with the agent.
That example is arithmetic, not a quote for your house, and 5% is not a market rate. It is a round number chosen to make the multiplication easy to follow. Your actual figure comes from a conversation and lives in a written agreement.
The number that matters to you as a seller is not the percentage. It's your net. Ask for a net proceeds estimate: sale price, minus commission, minus transfer fees, minus your attorney, minus any credits you agreed to. Any agent who won't put that in writing before you list is telling you something about how the rest of the process will go.
What the commission covers
Scope varies by brokerage, so get it itemized. In a full-service listing, it typically covers pricing analysis and strategy, professional photography and any video, MLS entry and syndication, showing coordination, open houses, negotiation, and management of the inspection, appraisal, and closing timeline.
If you're buying, your agent's compensation covers the search, the property research, the comparative analysis, the offer and negotiation, and the same inspection and closing coordination. It also covers the parts nobody enjoys, like chasing a lender two days before closing.
What it does not cover
It does not cover your transfer taxes, your attorney, your title insurance, your recording fees, or your mortgage costs. Those are separate line items. It does not cover repairs, credits, or concessions you negotiate. And it does not cover anything the agreement doesn't list, which is why the list matters.
For the full picture of what else you'll pay, see my guide to closing costs in New Jersey and the breakdown of what closing costs cover and who pays them.
Questions to ask before you sign anything
What exactly is the fee, and how is it calculated? A percentage, a flat fee, or an hourly rate. All are allowed. A range with no number is not.
What happens if the seller won't contribute on the buyer's side? If you're a buyer, know before you tour what your exposure is. If you're a seller, know what your agent will do with a request you'd rather not agree to.
What is the term, and how do I end it? The length of the agreement and the notice required to terminate are negotiable terms, and you should read both before signing.
Can I see it in writing and have my attorney review it? Yes, always. In New Jersey, attorney review is a normal part of the contract process, and it applies to the representation agreement conversation too.
What's included, specifically? Photography? Video? Open houses? Paid advertising? Written, not described.
If you're comparing a full-service arrangement against a flat-fee or limited-service one, I wrote a separate piece on choosing between a full-service and flat-fee agent that walks through what you give up at each level.
How I handle it
I put the fee in writing before anything else, and I walk through every line of the agreement with you. If the number doesn't work for your situation, I'd rather hear that in the first conversation than the last. What I won't do is quote a number in an article and pretend it's a market rate.
If you want to see what a net proceeds estimate looks like for your house, that's a real conversation and it costs nothing. Request a valuation or send me a message.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who pays the real estate commission in New Jersey?
The seller pays it in most transactions, deducted from proceeds at closing. Since August 2024 it is negotiated rather than assumed, and buyer-side compensation can also come directly from the buyer or as a seller concession.
Is the commission negotiable?
Yes. No law, MLS, or trade association sets a rate. The written agreement must state conspicuously that broker fees are not set by law and are fully negotiable.
Do I have to sign an agreement before touring a home?
In New Jersey, expect to. State law requires a written brokerage services agreement before services begin, and MLS rules require one before touring with an agent, in person or by live virtual tour.
Do I need an agreement to attend an open house?
No. Attending a public open house or asking an agent about their services does not require a signed agreement.
Can a buyer's agent be paid more than my agreement says?
No. The agreement must prohibit the agent from receiving more than the agreed amount for brokerage services from any source.
Is the commission tax deductible?
For most sellers it reduces the gain on the sale rather than being a separate deduction. For buyers it may factor into cost basis. Ask a tax professional about your situation. I'm not one.
Bob Millaway
Epique Realty Agent, AI Certified Agent. 728+ homes sold across Burlington County and South Jersey. Licensed NJ Salesperson #791082.
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